Kata Bijak

KATA BIJAK

•Pikiran yang bijak selalu saja haus untuk belajar.George Santayana (1863-1952).

•Kita belajar melalui contoh dan pengalaman, karena belajar secara verbal melalui kata-kata memiliki keterbatasan. Malcolm Gladwell, Blink: The Power of Thinking Without Thinking, 2005.

•Yang paling penting adalah tetap belajar, menikmati tantangan, dan menoleransi ketidakjelasan, karena pada akhirnya juga tidak ada jawaban yang pasti.
Martina Horner, Presiden dari Radcliffe College.

•Apa pun yang diminta dari Anda untuk Anda lakukan, katakan saja ”Tentu saja saya bisa!” Setelah itu sibukkan diri untuk mencari tahu bagaimana melakukan hal itu dengan baik.
Theodore Roosevelt (1858-1919).

•Belajar bukanlah kewajiban,... juga bukan untuk bertahan hidup.
W Edwards Deming (1900 -1993).

Increase Motivation
August 23rd, 2007 by John Wesley

If you want to make things happen the ability to motivate yourself and others is a crucial skill. At work, home, and everywhere in between, people use motivation to get results. Motivation requires a delicate balance of communication, structure, and incentives. These 21 tactics will help you maximize motivation in yourself and others.

Motivation
1. Consequences - Never use threats. They’ll turn people against you. But making people aware of the negative consequences of not getting results (for everyone involved) can have a big impact. This one is also big for self motivation. If you don’t get your act together, will you ever get what you want?
2. Pleasure - This is the old carrot on a stick technique. Providing pleasurable rewards creates eager and productive people.
3. Performance incentives - Appeal to people’s selfish nature. Give them the opportunity to earn more for themselves by earning more for you.
4. Detailed instructions - If you want a specific result, give specific instructions. People work better when they know exactly what’s expected.
5. Short and long term goals - Use both short and long term goals to guide the action process and create an overall philosophy.
6. Kindness - Get people on your side and they’ll want to help you. Piss them off and they’ll do everything they can to screw you over.
7. Deadlines - Many people are most productive right before a big deadline. They also have a hard time focusing until that deadline is looming overhead. Use this to your advantage by setting up a series of mini-deadlines building up to an end result.

8. Team Spirit - Create an environment of camaraderie. People work more effectively when they feel like part of team — they don’t want to let others down.
10. Recognize achievement - Make a point to recognize achievements one-on-one and also in group settings. People like to see that their work isn’t being ignored.
11. Personal stake - Think about the personal stake of others. What do they need? By understanding this you’ll be able to keep people happy and productive.
12. Concentrate on outcomes - No one likes to work with someone standing over their shoulder. Focus on outcomes — make it clear what you want and cut people loose to get it done on their own.
13. Trust and Respect - Give people the trust and respect they deserve and they’ll respond to requests much more favorably.
14. Create challenges - People are happy when they’re progressing towards a goal. Give them the opportunity to face new and difficult problems and they’ll be more enthusiastic.
15. Let people be creative - Don’t expect everyone to do things your way. Allowing people to be creative creates a more optimistic environment and can lead to awesome new ideas.

16. Constructive criticism - Often people don’t realize what they’re doing wrong. Let them know. Most people want to improve and will make an effort once they know how to do it.
17. Demand improvement - Don’t let people stagnate. Each time someone advances raise the bar a little higher (especially for yourself).
18. Make it fun - Work is most enjoyable when it doesn’t feel like work at all. Let people have fun and the positive environment will lead to better results.
19. Create opportunities - Give people the opportunity to advance. Let them know that hard work will pay off.

20. Communication - Keep the communication channels open. By being aware of potential problems you can fix them before a serious dispute arises.
21. Make it stimulating - Mix it up. Don’t ask people to do the same boring tasks all the time. A stimulating environment creates enthusiasm and the opportunity for “big picture” thinking.
Master these key points and you’ll increase motivation with a bit of hard work.


"Nothing great was ever achieved without enthusiasm."
– Ralph Waldo Emerson


The Power of Self Motivation
You can achieve everything you have ever wanted to have, experience, or become. The power has and always will be within you, but nothing will happen until you get and stay motivated to make something happen, to change your life and achieve your desires.
Becoming a Motivational Leader
To become a motivational leader, you start with motivating yourself. You motivate yourself with a big vision, and as you move progressively toward its realization, you motivate and enthuse others to work with you to fulfill that vision... More
Your Intention
"Just as an archer requires a target before he can shoot his arrow, you need a target before you can get motivated to achieve it."4
Your intention is a synergistic combination of three elements: desire, belief, and acceptance. It determines your motivation and how successfully you attain your goals... More
http://www.1000ventures.com/products/personal_success360.htmlSteve Jobs' 12 Rules of Success
1. Do what you love to do. Find your true passion. Do what you love to do a make a difference! The only way to do great work is to love what you do... More
Emotional Intelligence (EI)
"Emotional Intelligence" refers to your capacity to recognize your own feelings and those of others, for motivating yourself, and for managing emotions well in yourself and in your relationships. "It describes abilities distinct from, but complementary to, academic intelligence, the purely cognitive capabilities measured by IQ. Many people who are book smart lack emotional intelligence but lack emotional intelligence end up working for people who have lower IQs than they but who excel in emotional intelligence skills."1
Discontent as a Motivator
Discontent, anxiety, and anger, if you use and harness it in a positive way, are some of the most powerful motivations you can have. Use them if you're not happy with where you are right now. Find an area of discontent, think things through, and take action.


Case in Point Jim Clark
When asked "What Traits Should Every Good Entrepreneur Possess?", Jim Clark who a billionaire who was involved in starting Netscape, Silicon Graphics and many other start-up ventures, answered, "Discontent and anxiety."
Creative Visualization
Creative visualization helps you use your natural creative imagination in a more conscious way to create a clear image, idea or feeling sense of what you really want and to achieve your goal by focusing constantly on it and giving it your positive energy until it becomes objective reality... More
Fear as a Motivator
You have two ways to go with fear. You can weaken the negative ones or strengthen the empowering ones.4
Take in mind a goal that you wish to achieve. Be specific about what you want and why you want it. Once you have your chosen goal in mind, it's time to create some fear. Imagine that you lived the rest of your life never having achieved your goal, and you never realized your potential or what you were capable of. Create as horrible a picture as you can about this possible future. Think about how you'll feel about yourself, how others will feel about you, and how much it will hurt to know that you'll never do the things you wanted to do. And most effective of all, you never became the person you always knew you could be.
You now have fear working for you. Human beings will do most anything to avoid an intensely painful situation. By using this to your advantage you will be motivated to achieve your goal and avoid the pain of regret.4

Wise words from Bill Gates
Bill Gates recently gave a speech at a High School about 11 things learners did not and will not learn in school. He talks about how feel-good,politically correct teachings created a generation of kids with no concept of reality and how this concept set them up for failure in the real world.

Rule 1: Life is not fair - get used to it!
Rule 2 : The world won’t care about your self-esteem. The world will expect you to accomplish something BEFORE you feel good about yourself.
Rule 3 : You will NOT make $60,000 a year right out of high school. You won’t be a vice-president with a car phone until you earn both.
Rule 4 : If you think your teacher is tough, wait till you get a boss.
Rule 5 : Flipping burgers is not beneath your dignity. Your Grandparents had a different word for burger flipping: they called it opportunity.
Rule 6: If you mess up, it’s not your parents’ fault, so don’t whine about your mistakes, learn from them.
Rule 7: Before you were born, your parents weren’t as boring as they are now. They got that way from paying your bills, cleaning your clothes and listening to you talk about how cool you thought you were. So before you save the rain forest from the parasites of your parent’s generation, try delousing the closet in your own room.
Rule 8: Your school may have done away with winners and losers, but life HAS NOT. In some schools, they have abolished failing grades and they’ll give you as MANY TIMES as you want to get the right answer. This doesn’t bear the slightest resemblance to ANYTHING in real life.
Rule 9: Life is not divided into semesters. You don’t get summers off and very few employers are interested in helping you FIND YOURSELF. Do that on your own time.
Rule 10: Television is NOT real life. In real life people actually have to leave the coffee shop and go to jobs.
Rule 11: Be nice to nerds. Chances are you’ll end up working for one.




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asisma12 September 2007, 12:01 PM
"Kalau seorang anak hidup dengan kritik,ia akan belajar menghukum.
Kalau seorang anak hidup dengan permusuhan, ia akan belajar kekerasan.
Kalau seorang anak hidup dengan olokan,ia belajar menjadi malu.
Kalau seorang anak hidup dengan rasa malu, ia akan merasa bersalah.
Kalau seorang anak hidup dengan dorongan, ia akan belajar percaya diri.
Kalau seorang anak hidup dengan keadilan,ia akan belajar menjalankan keadilan.
Kalau seorang anak hidup dengan ketentraman,ia belajar tentang iman.
Kalau seorang anak hidup dengan dukungan,ia belajar menyukai diri sendiri.
Kalau seorang anak hidup dengan penerimaan serta persahabatan,ia belajar untuk
mencintai dunia.


;) :) :]



lagu_cinta12 September 2007, 12:13 PM
Originally posted by asisma
"Kalau seorang anak hidup dengan kritik,ia akan belajar menghukum.
Kalau seorang anak hidup dengan permusuhan, ia akan belajar kekerasan.
Kalau seorang anak hidup dengan olokan,ia belajar menjadi malu.
Kalau seorang anak hidup dengan rasa malu, ia akan merasa bersalah.
Kalau seorang anak hidup dengan dorongan, ia akan belajar percaya diri.
Kalau seorang anak hidup dengan keadilan,ia akan belajar menjalankan keadilan.
Kalau seorang anak hidup dengan ketentraman,ia belajar tentang iman.
Kalau seorang anak hidup dengan dukungan,ia belajar menyukai diri sendiri.
Kalau seorang anak hidup dengan penerimaan serta persahabatan,ia belajar untuk
mencintai dunia.


;) :) :]


wise word...
Kita ada di dunia bukan untuk mencari seseorang yang sempurna untuk dicintai
TETAPI untuk belajar mencintai orang yang tidak sempurna dengan cara yang
sempurna



zasachi12 September 2007, 12:48 PM
Orang yang terlalu banyak memiliki sesuatu, sering tidak bisa lagi menghargai
apa yg dimilikinya



asisma12 September 2007, 12:56 PM
Kesejahteraan adalah gagasan,diperlukan langkah nayta untuk mewujudkannya .
kesejahteraan adalah tunas harapan, diperlukan optimisme untuk menumbuhkannya.
Kesejahteraan adalah usaha,diperlukan keteguhan hati untuk mencapainya. ;)



asisma12 September 2007, 12:57 PM
Kesejahteraan adalah gagasan,diperlukan langkah nayta untuk mewujudkannya .
kesejahteraan adalah tunas harapan, diperlukan optimisme untuk menumbuhkannya.
Kesejahteraan adalah usaha,diperlukan keteguhan hati untuk mencapainya. ;)



zasachi12 September 2007, 01:30 PM
Berhati2lah terhadap teman anda yg kerap menceritakan keburukan org lain pada
anda, karena pada suatu saat dia juga bakal menceritakan keburukan anda pada org
lain..



asisma27 September 2007, 07:42 PM
Wanita dinikahi karena empat hal:
karena hartanya,karena keturunannya,karena kecantikannya,dan karena agamanya.
Maka hendaklah kamu pilih karena agamanya, sebab kalau tidak demikian, niscaya
kamu akan celaka.



asisma27 September 2007, 07:45 PM
Manakala seorang gadis telah menarik perhatian, maka carilah berbagai informasi
tentang dirinya. Kumpulkan data tentang dia dari keluarga,sahabat,orang terdekat
dan semua orang yang berada di lingkungannya. Tanyakanlah pada mereka tentang
gadis itu. Baru kemudian anda merasa mantap dengan pilihan anda, Lamarlah dia.



641894 October 2007, 05:54 PM
very wise



Jongmaleo854 October 2007, 09:15 PM
walaupun kita nakal...
jadilah anak nakal yang berpendidikan...
jangan dah nakanl gak berpendidikan...
mau jadi apa nanti..



asisma5 October 2007, 10:47 AM
Originally posted by cl_pacini
walaupun kita nakal...
jadilah anak nakal yang berpendidikan...
jangan dah nakanl gak berpendidikan...
mau jadi apa nanti..


WAH KALAU BISA JANGAN JADI NAKAL DONG! ;)



sanjaya-p5 October 2007, 05:43 PM
kalau seorang anak hidup dengan iman yang sholeh maka ia akan membawa kesejukan
bagi alam semesta:angel


:angel :angel :angel :angel



Jongmaleo855 October 2007, 08:37 PM
lebih baik jalan menunduk...
daripada mendongak...



Jongmaleo855 October 2007, 08:39 PM
jangan pernah menyesali keberadaanmu...
karena sesungguhnya tidak ada keberadaan seseorang yang patut ditertawakan...



Jongmaleo855 October 2007, 08:40 PM
janganlah kita merusak alam lebih dari ini...
karena alam juga dapat murka!!!



efendi_news6 October 2007, 12:28 AM
ini cocoknya dimasukan dlm forum puisi deh



Jongmaleo856 October 2007, 02:49 PM
janganlah melupakan hal2 yang telah terjadi
karena itu bisa menjadi pembelajaran bagi kita



Qol7 October 2007, 11:15 AM
Originally posted by cl_pacini
lebih baik jalan menunduk...
daripada mendongak...


tapi kalo truz jalan menunduk,gimana kalo nabrak????



Qol7 October 2007, 11:21 AM
Jangan pernah menyerah jika mengalami suatu kegagalan, karena sesungguhnya
kegagalan itu adalah kesuksesan yang tertunda.


http://img233.imageshack.us/img233/2452/narutolu1.jpg



Jongmaleo857 October 2007, 05:28 PM
Originally posted by Qol
Originally posted by cl_pacini
lebih baik jalan menunduk...
daripada mendongak...


tapi kalo truz jalan menunduk,gimana kalo nabrak????

paling kejeduk...



Jongmaleo857 October 2007, 05:29 PM
jangan menyerah sebelum berperang...
karena kita tidak dapat mengetahui hasil akhir yang sebenarnya...



618517 October 2007, 05:36 PM
Originally posted by cl_pacini
jangan menyerah sebelum berperang...
karena kita tidak dapat mengetahui hasil akhir yang sebenarnya...



Kegagalan adalah kemenangan yg tetunda..

Berarti kemenangan adalah kegagalan yg tertunda..

:dung



Adolz7 October 2007, 07:57 PM
Sedikit-dikit lama2 jadi banyak 8)



Adolz7 October 2007, 07:57 PM
1 kali dayung 1~3 cm terlampaui 8)



Adolz7 October 2007, 07:58 PM
Maju Yg Ceroboh adalah kegagalan
mundur lalu Maju adalah keberhasilan



618518 October 2007, 04:41 AM
Originally posted by Adolz
Maju Yg Ceroboh adalah kegagalan
mundur lalu Maju adalah keberhasilan



Hee..he..

Kata bijak lo yg ini h=gw g ngerti maksudny??

Sorry, tp mang gw hr ini rada...



Yugi8 October 2007, 04:45 AM
Originally posted by Adolz
Maju Yg Ceroboh adalah kegagalan
mundur lalu Maju adalah keberhasilan


mmhh mmhh patut d contoh



Adolz8 October 2007, 05:55 AM
Originally posted by naomi_devina
Originally posted by Adolz
Maju Yg Ceroboh adalah kegagalan
mundur lalu Maju adalah keberhasilan



Hee..he..

Kata bijak lo yg ini h=gw g ngerti maksudny??

Sorry, tp mang gw hr ini rada...

yah anggap lah lagi perang...
kalo perang asal maju aj pasti kalah perang, jadi mundur dulu,bikin strategi,
baru lah maju, kurang lebih begitu maksudnya ;)



618518 October 2007, 06:59 AM
Originally posted by Adolz
Originally posted by naomi_devina
Originally posted by Adolz
Maju Yg Ceroboh adalah kegagalan
mundur lalu Maju adalah keberhasilan



Hee..he..

Kata bijak lo yg ini h=gw g ngerti maksudny??

Sorry, tp mang gw hr ini rada...

yah anggap lah lagi perang...
kalo perang asal maju aj pasti kalah perang, jadi mundur dulu,bikin strategi,
baru lah maju, kurang lebih begitu maksudnya ;)






Gmana klo option nya ada 4:
1. Maju ceroboh?
2. Mundur lalu maju?
3. Mundur dan g maju-maju?
4. Maju terus pantang mundur, kaya´ team 7 gitu deh,,?

Hayyoo,, bingung y mau jawab apa?:haha



618518 October 2007, 08:27 AM
Hayooo, g ada yg bisa jawab ya?



Adolz8 October 2007, 08:42 AM
Originally posted by naomi_devina
Originally posted by Adolz
Originally posted by naomi_devina
Originally posted by Adolz
Maju Yg Ceroboh adalah kegagalan
mundur lalu Maju adalah keberhasilan



Hee..he..

Kata bijak lo yg ini h=gw g ngerti maksudny??

Sorry, tp mang gw hr ini rada...

yah anggap lah lagi perang...
kalo perang asal maju aj pasti kalah perang, jadi mundur dulu,bikin strategi,
baru lah maju, kurang lebih begitu maksudnya ;)






Gmana klo option nya ada 4:
1. Maju ceroboh?
2. Mundur lalu maju?
3. Mundur dan g maju-maju?
4. Maju terus pantang mundur, kaya´ team 7 gitu deh,,?

Hayyoo,, bingung y mau jawab apa?:haha

option nomor 2 ;)



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